The first time I heard the words Feminine Power was through a course. I showed up for this, and found that my personal feminine power was there, but what else is there. It was like I was swimming in a sea of nothingness and was looking for a lifesaver to pull my weary soul into a raft. There was a feeling of disempowered, disillusion and sanctity all at the same time.
Just How Do You Find Personal Power
The more I tried to seek solutions or answers, the more I felt as if I were drowning. Slowly, but surely, I let the raft cruise away and set course for destination unknown.
What I was seeking is my personal feminine power? As I sought this affect, I began to feel like Dorothy from the “Wizard of Oz.” I can imagine the ruby slippers; I am a strong woman, so what point am I missing. I am powerful like the wizard specifies and found that I “had the power all along, my dear.” -Glenda the Good Witch. Yet, something felt off. Power is not strength. Power means something else.
Locating Personal Feminine Power
It is more about the journey and not the destination. I found with my adventure that there are several key factors. When you begin to engage these keys, this unlocks the door to your feminine wisdom. One by one they keys are shown and then destiny brings forth the majestic Divine reverie.
Keys for Personal Feminine Power
Each of these stages brings forth much wonder, mystery and awe.
Emotional resistance is the trajectory of keeping those bad habits or denial of feelings/ emotions in place. It is the hamster stuck on the hamster wheel running and running expecting a different outcome. Yet, this cannot occur unless you are ready to let go that which no longer serves you.
Do you know your boundaries?
Are you able to say what you feel?
Prime example: Are you able to say no when you mean no.
When life hands you lemons, do you cry, piss and moan? Or do you make lemonade? An emotionally resilient individual is aware that they may have difficult moments show up; however this is not the end. This individual is able to move on.
You do not have to have all of the answers or complete all of the work. There is the ability to delegate authority and consistent persistence. Release, let it go and keep moving. Even when the moment seems hectic or a bad day occurs the term “Never Give Up!” shines through. Or maybe you sit in a moment of silence, disallow distractions from electronics, people, and/or addictions. You acknowledge this challenge, allow yourself the necessary time and space to recover; poof you are back in the game.
Personal feminine sensuality is the ability to express your nurturing needs.
How full is your chalice in the well of your goddess?
Do you view this as half empty, half full, empty or my cup runneth over?
There are several ways to encompass more sensuality for your being. All which are meaningful and wonderful ways to enrich your soul.
Healing baths, dancing/fluid movement, relaxing massages, sensuous foods, meditation, rejuvenating, restorative arts.
“Your Sexual Expression is as unique as you. There is no one stop shop or way to enjoy your sexual expressions. This is sexual thoughts, feelings, desires, fears, hopes, and dreams. Do not be shy, nor afraid to discovery, explore and seek out your desires in a safe manner. Sexual violence has its own personal history for each individual, so please explore as you feel ready. Cultures or communities may have restrictions on sexual expression. Go with what feels personally natural. Seek with self worth and care. Be open and honest with yourself and/or partner. Have the conversation about what you need and desire. Ultimately, this is up to you for not only personal and physical pleasure, but also be mindful of your emotional well being.” (Botkin, The Sensual Yoni: Discovery of the Feminine Spirit)
An authentic woman is willing to be herself no matter what. Have you ever seen the woman that arrives at a party and is super comfortable in her own skin even if another shows up in the same dress as she. You are unequivocally you. There is no worries, concerns or woes as to the power that is wielding deep from with you. You shine naturally, dance as if no one is watching and are simply happy to be you. People are drawn to you, not because you have the most, rich or such; they are drawn to the deep inner radiance that is shining for all to sense: see, hear, feel, taste, touch. A self-realized woman is a woman in a deep personal feminine power. You are able to speak your truth from the most authentic persona of which is you.
You are grateful. Gratitude pours from you; you can sense your exuberance, you see gifts in the smallest of notions, and you realize and recognize the bounty of life. Your chalice runneth over and over. You heart is filled with deep, unconditional love. You recognize that gratitude is your superpower.
The most powerful prayer is Thank You.
A gracious heart brings forth so much abundance.
This is a woman who is in tune with her Higher Self. You recognize that your body is a spiritual temple and the Divine Feminine Goddess resides within.
You are aware of the Divine feminine energy that runs through you. A spiritual nuance of your Soul and deep inner connection of pure Divine Spirit. You live in the present-here and now.
You are a sacred temple in the quest of feminine Spirit. She seeks you as you seek her;she is you and you are she. You are the epitome of creation; a creative soul unleashed from the predecessors of the past; living wild and free in the present.
In essence your personal Feminine Power is that you are your most valuable treasure and
You “live a life that causes” your “soul to dance inside” your body. – Dele Clanubi.
You are a Feminine Goddess!!
Oodles of Love,
Yes! Natasha, I would love to learn how to be a powerful Feminine Goddess.
Natasha Botkin, Master Teacher & Intuitive Behavioral Energy Healer, is a #1 international bestselling author, artist & Shiny Gold Star Quest creator. She uses healing soul psychology energies when working with youth and adults by releasing patterns & blocks to help them empower themselves. Connect with me Magical Blessings Healing Center