Letting go seems quite surreal, easy and just what is the big deal. What you may not understand is that a belief learned from a pattern or behavior can make quite an avalanche. This can leave you feeling, lost, insecure and confused.
3 ways to Let Go:
#1 Personal Responsibility:
Have you ever had that moment where you know what you should do, but cannot seem to acknowledge how you are responsible for what occurred?
What if you are anxious or tried this before and it turned out badly. It can. Been there done that so to speak and yet, if I did not step up and discuss concerns with others, I would be the one giving away the power. No one should be powerless; you deserve your power. There may be moments where it will not go as planned. Please review my blog, Expectations.
It is okay. “It is a mistake and it is not a life sentence.” – Natasha Botkin excerpt from “When Egos Feed.”
You are a human being and not doing. You are then taking acceptance in your being with action -acknowledgement is action. This does not mean forget the like it never happened. A major part of letting it go is your ability to acquiesce such. From there it is taking your onus in it all.
#2 Self Forgiveness:
Then you are ready to move onto the next step. Forgiveness is a major part of letting go. Sometimes you hold on to tight to something that no longer serves you. This is a not a race to the finish line as to who holds the most beliefs. In fact, it is quite the opposite.
Soul growth is being able to let go and grow.
Let go, grow into forgiveness. Forgiveness is not something you are not readily taught. Or maybe you were taught like so many and that is to say sorry, and yet, you do not have a clue what you are apologizing for. Or worse you say sorry for all the wrong reasons to keep the peace and then do not forgive yourSelf in all of this.
My absolute favorite way to work with forgiveness is with Ho’oponopono. This is the Hawaiian forgiveness mantra.
Insert your who and what into the mantra to forgive and heal a situation and all involved.
I am sorry…
Please forgive me…
I love you…
There is no specific order, If you have heard Ho’oponopono mentioned in a different order. Close your eyes and use this three times.
# 3 Accountability:
Sometimes, you may need accountability. There is nothing wrong with that. We all need a little support from time to time; it is much better to have support than to topple over.
When I am working through something and my small self is distracted, my BeLoved loves to remind me of the song from “Frozen,” and I will hear Let it Go with a massive smirk on his face.
Find your someone who is able to give you that quick “get back on track, please.”
You deserve to be authentic from the core of you.
In no way am I suggesting that you forget, rather I am asking you to learn from your mistake, let it go and move on into a more fluid movement and mobility. You gain nothing from holding on to tightly and wound up. If you recall a clock that is wound too tight its springs pop and malfunction and/or break. You deserve self-respect and self-admiration.
This also may take a few times to get the hang of, especially if this is a new concept for you.
Be patient and gentle with you!
You deserve the absolute best!!
Magical Blessings has many different offerings for you to be successful.
These are ageless and timeless ,and I honor all ages.
Connect with me and let’s help you let go and move into the flow of your life.
Natasha Botkin, Master Teacher & Soul Intuitive Behavioral Energy Healer, #1 international bestselling author, artist, Shiny Gold Star Quest. She uses healing soul psychology energies when working with youth and adults by releasing patterns & blocks to help them empower themselves. Connect with me Magical Blessings