9 Ways to Show Your True Colors

If you have read the first blog of the year, then you know there’s a surge of confidence gracing my words, pages and aesthetic. However, if you are just seeing this blog; please reference my Word of the Year post.

I adore the song True Colors by Cindy Lauper.  There is so much that resonates.  “… don’t be afraid …to show them Your true colors. True colors are beautiful. Like a rainbow.”  

We all have darkness that nests within. The small ego voice that says, “Don’t show them who you are.”

Better yet, do not listen to the ego; rise up & show you as the beautiful rainbow of chakra colors and aura that you are.

Courage 

Stand by Commitment Courageous Magical Blessings ConfidenceCourage is showing others who you are.  This is not the mask that is placed upon you and/or who you may believe that you are; rather this is who you are when you strip away the facades and stand with the Divine part of you.

Not everyone will find you to be their cup of tea, and that is just fine. Those who resonate with you, will also vibe with you.

Above all please stop asking permission to be you.

9 ways to Sprinkle a Dash of Boldness

  • Know your boundaries. Self care is a mega form of boundaries
  • Self Care is essential. Make time to do things that love you up!
  • Mentally allow yourself to change; ebb and flow like the seasons. Life will not remain constant and let yourself grow by learning, experiencing and living.
  • Physically love you up with nourishing foods, work out and rest with sleep and/or  just lazy days.
  • Emotionally allow yourself to feel. Open the flow and allow you to feel your feelings on a deep level. Do not dismiss them; invite them in and explore why you have these feelings and gently release this as lessons that can help you be happy, successful and amazing.
  • Spiritually connect with your version of Spirit. Have a nice conversation
  • Meditate; this does not have to be strict. This could be a 5 min. tea break. Sit and let your mind wander.
  • Be mindful of what you say to yourself. Speak lovingly, gently and softly to you.
  • Look at what you are thinking about others. Is this a way for you to focus on them, rather than looking at what you need and want.

Rise up and be you! There is no one like you; you are destined to be you, so why no just do it.

Oodles of Love & Magical Blessings,

Natasha

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Don’t Hold Back Your Heart Let it Point North!

A grateful heart is a happy heart. You do, desire a happy heart, right…

With that being said, happiness is an inside job. No one can make you happy. You can feel the emotional outpouring of a happy feeling and exude joy; yes, but only you can bring this forth.

However, so many say do this, don’t do that. Oh hell, no we won’t go down that path.

I AIN’T GOT TIME 

Compass, Heart, Truth North. Magical Blessings, So, I am supposed to be happy. Sure, Right and OMG, not another dumb person telling me what I should or shouldn’t do.

Heck, what do I do with this anxious, dread and worry?

Aww, this is where it can get tricky, and yet it doesn’t  have to. Have you ever heard the idea about working smarter not harder?  I don’t know about you, but I like things easy, peasy and to be done with it. I ain’t got time for all that drama and nonsense.

ANXIETY, WORRY DOUBT BOREDOM

Those are killer of dreams. These are keeper of cells (When Egos Feed); think prison cell.

You do not deserve to stay frozen unable to move. Break free and get a movin.

TREAT YOUR HEART LIKE A COMPASS

Place your hands over your heart. Do you feel that? That is your heart beat. It keeps ticking, so you keep living.

Yet, are you loving?

Are you loving life?

Are you loving you?

It is too easy to get swept up in life’s drama or distracted from that which you love. Yes, this includes you, too.

You my dear heart are your greatest love. Treat your heart like it is the most precious love of all. Compass magical blessings true north heart love selfYou are your most precious love. Be like Dolly Parton and declare “I Will Always Love You.”  Many know this song via Whitney Houston and she did an amazing job, but the original song writer is dear ole Dolly.

Now, let’s get in touch with your heart and point this true north.  Many mystics believe that your heart is your true north. When you align with your heart, you align fully with Spirit/Divine/whomever you speak with.

So how do you do this? Simple, let go of anything that is stopping you. Ready, set, let it go…let it flow. Once you tap into your true Divine heart is when life aligns to its greatest source: Your Heart.

HA, EASY PEASY

Natasha, I’ve tried everything from self-loathing to self-harm, pills, alchie and ya. Okay, I am not here to criticize nor judge you! Nope, I am not. However, I can help guide you to your true north. Creative Self Expression is a great way to connect with you, your heart and soul. Paint, Write, Mediation and much more can help bring out what is locked behind bars.

Also, forget perfect. That is such a lie!  It will hurt ya every time. Let go of the perfect idea and allow yourself to get messy. Go for that meditative hike, paint with your fingers, dig in the dirt and so much more.

p.s. did ya notice that much of this does not include electronics? Those can distract you from hearing your heart. Put ’em down and get outdoors; even if it is for 5 mins.

HOLDER OF DREAMS

Your heart is the keeper of your dreams. When you have a grateful heart is when your inner happy peace exudes and overflows. Life seems simpler, easier; it is almost by magic that everything just syncs. Easy Peasy Breezy!

Therefore, getting to your true north is via your heart. This is when head, heart, and spirit triangulate in the perfect formation. You are in alignment with your truth. You’ve let go of things in your way, and things manifest and flow to you.

MAGIC WAND

fairy godmother magic wan magical blessingsSo, my dear heart where is your magic wand. Aww, it is in your heart; you are the soul keeper of your heart; this is your inner map to Spiritual Growth. This is your map to deep inner peace, joy, and harmony.  Let it go, and let it flow.

Bippty, boppity boo…now it’s up to you!

Go forth dear heart and live the life of your dreams…

 

Oodles of Love & Magical Blessings,

Natasha 

 

Natasha Botkin Magical Blessings Healing CenterNatasha Botkin, Master Teacher & Intuitive Behavioral Energy Healer, is a #1 international bestselling Author & Artist. She uses healing soul psychology energies when working with youth and adults by releasing patterns & blocks to help them empower themselves.  Connect with me Magical Blessings Healing Center

 

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Are You Shunning the Girl Within? Part 2

In my previous post Are you Shunning the Girl Within Part 1, I discuss the nasty subject of girl shunning.  However, let’s take examine this at a deeper level.

Ready, set, meet me there…

Shunning You

Inner Girl Power Inner Child Feminine Magical BlessingsYou are a girl; your age does not matter; you have an inner child.

Do you sit with her, play with her, hold any interest in her?

Worst of all do you ignore her or call her names?

If you answered yes to any of these, there is a way to stop the snarky madness.

Moving Through the Pain

For a moment stop and ponder why you ignore or call you names.

Why do you dislike or dishonor yourself?

Who in your life created a way for you to do this?

Now, it is not about the blame game.  This is about getting to the root of it all.  Strong blooms, blossom better with strong roots.  So, we will explore and discover what is uprooting your girl.

Seek and you Shall Find

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You are seeking happiness and solace. There is anxiety, worry or maybe dread. It does not have to be this way.

You will need 20-30 mins for this activity. Please enjoy this in a quiet space and light a while candle.

 Let’s Begin:

Meditation:  For a moment, close your eyes and see you at the age of 6. You are playing hide and seek.  What is the best hiding place to stay hidden?

Journal Time: Open your eyes and write this down.

Meditation: Next, close your eyes again. You are still in this perfect hiding spot. Hold out your hand and speak very softly in a sweet gentle manner. What does your inner girl do or say? Let her speak freely; allow her the freedom to express herself.

Journal Time: Open your eyes and write this down.

Meditation: Close your eyes again, and using a gentle, soft voice ask her what she needs.

Journal Time:  Open your eyes and write this down.

Meditation: Close your eyes, offer to sit with your inner girl.  Do not rush; especially if you have not spoken to her and spent time with her. She may shy and disbelieve you.  Use this meditation and journaling activity as much as you need.

Coming out of Hiding

Let go of all that you “think” you know, and allow your inner girl to connect with you. She will show you things about you, that even you may not remember nor recall. She is on your side, and wants the best for you. You are an incredible team. Grant her permission to be this cheerleader, teacher and guide.

The biggest moment of all.

Ho’oponopono is a powerful ancient Hawaiian Forgiveness Mantra.

Close your eyes and repeat:

I am sorry

Please forgive me

I love you 

Thank You

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Standing Tall with your Inner Girl Power:

  1.  Be Authentic! Be you like no one is watching. Dance, sing, wear that lavender hair.  Seriously, no one cares. “If no one likes what you are creating, just smile at them and tell them to go make their own fucking art.” – Elizabeth Gilbert
  2. Speak to your Inner Girl. Let the conversation keep flowing. Do not stop it. She needs to hear from you directly, fully and completely. Turn off the electronics and spend 15-20 mins a day with her. She is a powerful force deep within you; she is your biggest cheerleader and ally!
  3. Honor & Respect your Inner Girl. If you say to her that you will go for a walk, meditate, paint do it! She will retreat once again, and find it even more difficult to trust you. You deserve self-love and self-care! 
  4. Ask your Inner Girl  for advice. Going to get a mani/pedi, ask her what color or what type of bubble bath, essential oil, colors to paint/color with. She loves that you include her as she is you and you are she. Ask what’s a good idea for dinner. There’s all kinds of way to ask her for advice. 
  5. Support your Inner Girl. Your inner girl is deeply connected with you, so she may be a great siren to signal danger. When she does this, please disallow the ego to override her. Again, she has your best interest at heart. 
  6. Calm the inner anxious storm within. Your inner girl is handy at helping with the anxiety monster that gets out of hand. Ask her to hold you, take your hand and guide you. She will thrive and enjoy caring for you; as she is you and you are she. She is great at calming the woes, doubts and worries.

Now your inner girl is not an excuse. Oops, my inner girl got her freak on or my inner girl made me do it. Do not use her as scapegoat; she will not tolerate that.

A nice example is I wrestled for a year to incorporate pastel purple in my hair. Finally, after peekaboo attempts, I heard my inner girl, say, “Girl, just get over yourself and do it, trust me!” I ordered the pastel purple and very much enjoy the gorgeous lavender locks!! My inner girl was so spot on!

Get your Inner Girl on!  

Rock it Girl! 

You Got this!! 

 

Yes!  Natasha, I would love to hear my inner girl and shine my inner radiance.

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A Great way to begin the discussion with a young lady or a better understanding for all ages.

 

Oodles of Love & Magical Blessings, 

Natasha 

 

 

Natasha Botkin Magical Blessings Healing CenterNatasha Botkin, Master Teacher & Intuitive Behavioral Energy Healer, is a #1 international bestselling author, artist and Shiny Gold Star Quest creator.  She uses healing soul psychology energies when working with youth and adults by releasing patterns & blocks to help them empower themselves.  Connect with me Magical Blessings Healing Center