How to be Authentic

Have you heard the whispers in the air, the lull of the moon, the dance of the waves. Your authentic self calls to you, please come to me, let me be me.

One thing is for sure, your soul will not allow you to hide, procrastinate nor ignore. The energy vibes are calling, whispering, saying your truth and the more that you try to ignore or hide, the stronger the vibes may become.

It’s as if you soul is standing up and saying enough; enough with your shenanghans.  I am here in the now; now follow me.

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The old 3D adage of fake it until you make it, no longer rings true. It is an old pattern and belief established in the third dimension; the awakened consciousness no longer tolerates this type of shenanghans.

In fact this may create more dissidence than helpfulness. Your inner peace will sound like a siren screaming it’s head off- “You fraud, that’s false.” Please note that your authentic voice is more powerful than a meek or false voice. The 7D toll of the bell, rings of love, of truth, of light. It requires for you to let go of your mask(s), and stand in your true, authentic power.

The haters are gonna hate

There will be those who disagree. Okay, why do they have more power over you, than you do of yourself? Use your authentic voice, show the world who you really are, and the world will answer your call, and step up to form a clearer path as to how you will go about your soul’s blueprint and why you are here.

Now, this is not to say, that you cannot insist on “your way” aka the idea of “free will.” I am here to gently emphasize that this is a 3 year in numerology, where your inner-most heartfelt desires are set to take form.   Get ready to open your wings & FLY or flop.

Ultimately the choice is up to you. No one is in your way, but you.

Authentic Ways For You to Show up

Here are a few ways to show up in an authentic manner, which can calm the storm of the lesson if you allow. 

Ways to be authentic:

  1. Is this a feeling, emotion or thought? 
  2. Ask yourself what am I feeling? Sad, mad, happy, anxious, calm and more. Spend time with the feeling; sit with it; do not move on it. Take 3 deep breaths. Now how do you feel?
  3. Allow yourself to feel this emotion.  Do not ignore it, this will tighten its grip- Breathe in and out as the emotion happens. Rest for a moment, reflect on what this is teaching you. Inhale and then exhale by releasing the emotion and re-setting yourself. Give yourself space to flow through the emotion.
  4. Is the thought useful, benefical or is it an old story that wants attention? Inhale the thought, do nothing else and then exhale letting it go. Don’t hold onto it. Breath it out and ask the angels/spirit to take it from here.
  5. Where did the feeling, emotion or thought originate from? Pay careful attention to the signs that your emotional body is sending to your physical body (i.e.  is your chest tight- then breath into your heart center and allow the emotion to flow in and out of you-almost like an ocean wave). Disease holds onto the body and the origination is a feeling, emotion or thought: DIS-EASE.
  6. Is this actually a belief?  What is the illusion that you are trying to convince yourself as your truth?
  7. Reiki and Distance Healing is a great way to help you to rest, reflect and re-set.

The World Needs You to Dance With Yourself

This is from a metaphoric stance; and, yet it is key to be you. There is no one like you. You are perfect just as you are, and the world needs you to be you. In the words of Dr. Suess, “Today you are you, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is youer than you.”

May you always be blessed by being you!

Oodles of Love,


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Natasha Botkin MSc. Ed. Rm., Reiki Master, Meditation Teacher & Intuitive Behavioral Energy Healer, is a #1 international bestselling Author and Artist. She uses healing whimsical, magical, soul psychology energies when working with youth and adults by releasing patterns, blocks, and trauma to help them empower themselves. Connect with me Magical Wellness

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What Happens When You Make a Dandelion Wish?

Travel back to your youth.  Close your eyes and imagine a dandelion.  Take this up to your lips and blow….pfffff

Dandelion Wish

Look at all the seeds that you just blew out for the Universe to answer.

When you play Source seeks to help provide your wish.

What Happens When You are Real

What does happen when you stop “being” grown up for a moment and travel back to where it all began.  Your heart’s desires can very much come true.  Yet, the patterns and beliefs that were taught have created egotistic chaos.

When we unravel, unlearn and let go, and I mean really let go.  We are better able to travel back to a time when our dear hearts were allowed to dream.  Did those in your life say that you could be anything you wanted? So, what happened to those dreams?

Big Dreaming: Dream Your Biggest Dream

Now, this is not a bashing moment or going to that icky dark place.  This about allowing yourself the ability to say, “I made a mistake.  I am so sorry Divine Source for not believing in you and having Faith that you will provide me what my heart desires and dreams about.”

It is not too late to begin.  You can begin anew anytime and anywhere.  It is all up to you.

So, what do you say.  Plssst and go about your grumpy business or reach for the biggest dream even more grandeur than you ever deemed is possible.

A big dream of mine was to write a Children’s Storybook and by golly I have written and illustrated and launched my first of many.  YIPEE!!  Happy Cartwheels of Love!

Flashlights in the Sky

Come laugh, giggle, and explore your emotions and feelings.

Grab a copy for a special child in your life.


Oodles of Love & Magical Blessings, 


Natasha Botkin, Master Teacher & Intuitive Behavioral Energy Healer, is a #1 international bestselling author and Shiny Gold Star Quest creator.  As a Dark Heart Teacher, she uses healing soul psychology energies when working with youth and adults by releasing patterns & blocks to help them empower themselves.  Connect with me

Why It’s Best to Believe in You

image believe in you Why it’s best to believe in you.

First, there is no one like you.  No matter how you look at it; you are the best you, and no one else does you best.

Believe it or not, you are the best version of you.  Without you being you, then the world loses out on the wonderfulness that you exude.  Once upon a time, I forgot the essence of who I truly am.  When I did that, all that I offer and bring to this world was lost.  The other day, I walked into the grocery store and immediately everyone near me began to smile.  I was at a loss as to the why I was there for a simple item; after seeing this, I knew it was divinely so much more.  It was not the item; it was what was stated next by a dear woman, “My dear you glow like a radiant light.”  

So, I aim at being the best me that I can be.  You can as well; it is so easy to be you!  

Sounds contrite, and alas it is not.  Take for a moment and ponder  the movie “It’s  a Wonderful Life.”  You may not even be aware of what you bring to this thing called life.  I have had others begin to remind me of who I am and why I am here.  I am here to shine and radiate divine loving light.  It is the essence of who I am in.  As my BeLoved recently stated, “Just Be You!”

Best to Believe in You!! 

It’s not a gimmick and not easier said than done.  If I listened to others who tried to change me, I would have lost the most preciousness and that is ME!   You, too are also super precious- a special flower of the most divine kind.

Ways to help believe in you: 

  1. Do the inner work.  Yes it is necessary.  Once I went deep within and faced the fear and inner demons, the most magical blessings came forward.  My life literally shifted into a magical being.
  2. Get out there and be you.  Do not hide.  Step out of the shadows; even if you show up with shakes, still show up; let your voice quiver, and yet, still show up.
  3. Love yourself.  Even those pieces that you dislike; love all of you.  You are not a mistake; God made you in the creation of him; his miraculous creation.  Darling, you are that miracle!!
  4. Be mindful and gentle with how you speak to yourself.  What would happen if you taped what you say to you; pretend for a moment that you are being recorded what will this reveal?
  5. Accept that we all make mistakes.  It is okay, it is not  the end of the world.  I’ve made some mega mistakes and once I was able to forgive me, I was able to heal, and it was not even close to what the negative chatter bantered.
  6. Forgive you.  You will make mistakes,  Get back up, brush yourself off and keep going.
  7. Trust you.  If you cannot trust you, who can you trust?
  8. It’s okay to not have all of the answers.  That is part of this growth in this thing we call life.
  9. Repeat as often as necessary.

Most importantly Believe in You!  

You are the Best You!

Much Love, Much Light and Magical Blessings, 



Natasha Publicty PhotoNatasha Botkin, Master Teacher & Energy Intuitive Healer and #1 International Best Selling Author and creator of Reclaiming Your Power, Empower Your Words and Heart Meditative Writing. Gifted with the divine wisdom of guiding one transforming heart and soul with passion, creative play and healing energies.  Natasha works closely with  Youth & Adults  by using all the elements (Fire, Water, Air, Earth, Spirit) from a multi-dimensional healing of energies releasing patterns and blocks by helping one to shine their light and empower them.  Connect with me