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How Traversing Your Inner Terrene Isn’t as Bad as You Expect

You are your world.

There is nothing that does not affect your energy being.

The world around you may be falling apart, but that does not mean that you have to take on others issues.

We all have issues. No one is exemplified from having issues. So, what do you do about it.

Learning To traverse Your Terrene

Take for example that you are a world. Your human form is a living, thriving metropolis.  Everything  that you do, eat, think and believe affects you. This can be both positive and negative.  You will have bad days; no one can’t tell you that you can’t nor won’t. There are days where it seems like getting out of bed and showering is a major feat. So, by golly celebrate.

Once upon a time during a long-term illness getting out of bed and getting dressed was a major accomplishment. I was over the moon, if I could also run a hairbrush through my easily tangled locks.

Choose your battles

No one knows exactly what you are going through or what you are working on. It is for you to know and work through.  With that being said, it is also not okay to get stuck in a rut and use excuses. We all have things happen to us, things we’ve been through. These bumps help us to grow and to thrive even more powerfully.

Let Go of Expectations

Shit Happens Let it Go Magical Blessings Authentic VoiceLife happens. Shit happens and things can get skewed and then ya wake up one day and say oh hell no. So, let today, be that day. Let go of the contrived notion that you have to be perfect, have all the answers and be on point.

Allow yourself to make mistakes. If it happens; it happens and you’ve learned a valuable lesson. Now take that knowledge and be a powerhouse. Help yourself and by helping you, caring for you, loving you; you are also helping others who may not be able to do so.

Show up in a Tutu 

Aha, caught your attention. What? Why? You do not have to literally show up in a tutu; I love using metaphors.  But, who am I to say that you cannot show up in a tutu if you so choose to do so. Go for it. Color you hair, get that tat, write the book, sing that song, paint that painting. The list goes on and on.

Years ago co-workers breathed a sigh of relief after another unfortunate round of belittlement from admin. A co-worker leaned next to my ear and said, “It’s about time you showed up!”  This sent chills down my spine and something internally clicked and the previous drama was silenced and a viable solution was rendered. Why, because I showed up and offered my wisdom and advice.  Everyone benefited from me gracing my worth and speaking up.

Speak Even if Your Voice Quivers

Go for it. Say it out loud. What is the worst that will happen. Yep, your ego will fill your head with nonsense that may not even occur. So, go for it. Speak up, show up and be fabulous.

  • But, let’s turn this inward.
  • Close your eyes.
  • What is something that is driving you batty about others?
  • Now, turn this to you. Inhale and exhale 3 times.
  • Where is this also showing up in your life?
  • Write this down.
  • Sit with this for a moment and allow your mind to wander.
  • Speak out loud, write this in a journal as if you are having a dialogue with yourself. Most of all get it out in the open. Acknowledging this will not only help you to identify the inner turmoil; but is also lead you to your healing path.

Get raw and real. Do not hold back. Yes, it seems scary to see you behaving like another who annoys you; then again the most important is the ability to heal you! The more raw you are with yourself, the deeper you will explore and find a way to shine the light on it. Spirit will take it from here; however, please give Spirit permission. Due to ego free will, they needs your permission to take it away. Poof, gone; it is no more and you have gained knowledge to traverse your inner terrene.  Use this as much as you need.

Oodles of Love & Magical Blessings, 

Natasha 

 

Believe in You Natasha Botkin Magical BlessingsNatasha Botkin, Master Teacher & Intuitive Behavioral Energy Healer, is a #1 international bestselling Author and Artist.  She uses healing soul psychology energies when working with youth and adults by releasing patterns & blocks to help them empower themselves.  Connect with me Magical Blessings Healing Center

 

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6 Simple Ways to Increase Your Confidence Part 1

In this part of the two part series we will explore confidence. What it means and how you can have more of it in your life. In my previous blog, What’s Your Word of the Year, I share that my word of the year is confidence.

You may wonder how can I convey confidence to you; who better than one who is actually living the change; rather than one more person barking an idea at you. I do not know about you, but I am super tired of “people” yakking about subjects they have not experienced.

What Does Confidence Mean

The word begins with the meaning the feeling or belief that one can rely on someone or something; firm trust.

Let’s take a deeper look. It is the state of feeling certain about the truth of something.

Grateful heart Gratitude Self Love Self Care Magical BlessingsOr going even deeper. It is a feeling of self-assurance arising from one’s appreciation of one’s own abilities or qualities.

Once upon a time due to a domestic violence situation, I learned to distrust, disallow and second guess everything. It shook my confidence to the core.

I am no longer that person.

Brimming

I am brimming with confidence. It is another way to say that I am full of confidence. Or what I like to call True Voice, Authentic Voice, and Who I am.

“Once we believe in ourselves, we can risk curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight, or any experience that reveals the human spirit.” – E.E. Cummings

Good Vibrations

Imagine for a moment that you have your own unique style and quirks. You are not afraid to be you. You know you and use your voice in a positive manner that is beneficial to you.  When you speak your truth you will find yourself surrounded by others who have the same vibration. They may not seem like your peps, and yet, they are in your vibrational allegory.

Yep, that may mean that people who once seemed cool and adored you, may now find you off putting and vice versa. Your true authentic voice and vibration will light your path. This is confidence at its best. Being brave and courageous to unequivocally you! 

6 Simple Ways to Increase Your Confidence

  1. Groom yourself: It seems obvious and yet it is amazing on how good you can feel with a shower or bath. I have been in a horrible feeling and poof as if by magic the water cleansed me both inside and outside.
  2. Dress Nicely: Get dressed. There was a point in time where I would slide out of bed, run a brush through my tangled mass of hair, pull it back and throw on a shirt and shorts; no care, just going through the motion. We all need days like this to rest and veg; but not when it is day after day. Get dressed this will boost your mood big time.
  3. Anxiety and/or depression zappers: Stop worrying about the past and doubting the future.  Live right now at this moment. Right now you are reading this blog post. When you are done you have moved to another moment. Go slow; step by step. There is no race.Dream Big Make Happen Choice Chance Change Magical Blessings
  4. Mindful breathing. This can be meditation. Taking a 5 mins midday break where you breath deeply. Let your mind wander. Breath in and out. Just breath and let go of worry, anxiety.
  5. Speak slowly. Give yourself the benefit of not racing to an answer. If you really mean no. Inhale, take a deep breath, exhale and slowly say, no, thank you. When you slow you speech, you are able to connect with your true feelings. It is okay to say no.
  6. Set a goal/new habit. It takes 21 days to create a habit and 28 days for this to stick. Choose a goal/new habit. Set aside time and work on it for 15 mins each day. Mark on a calendar your success and at the end of 21/28 days celebrate. Not a small celebration. Make this huge!

You Can Do it! 

No matter how many times your have tried or where you are beginning, be proud of yourself for trying. You are an amazing, brave individual. Now go forth and build your confidence one step at a time.

Natasha, please help me gain more confidence

 

Oodles of Love & Magical Blessings, 

Natasha

 

Believe in You Natasha Botkin Magical Blessings

Natasha Botkin, Master Teacher & Intuitive Behavioral Energy Healer, is a #1 international bestselling Author, Artist.  She uses healing soul psychology energies when working with youth and adults by releasing patterns & blocks to help them empower themselves.  Connect with me Magical Blessings Healing Center

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6 Creative Ways to Express YourSelf

The Divine created us to be creative, and when the Sacral Chakra is fine tuned your creative Self expression easily flows through you.

Create 

The definition to create is to bring something into existence.  This is about bringing something forward with a joyful heart. Not everyone takes pleasure in the same creative journey. That’s the beauty of creative expression is the truly unique Self expression that belongs solely to you; this is yours and yours alone.

 

LIGHT ENERGY

Letting Go Expectations and Light Energy

Nature’s Light Energy @ Hidreck Dragonshade

We are energy light beings who thrive on energy.  This energy very much brings us expansion. The creative energy surges forth and asks us to create.  It is like your Sacral Chakra lights up and poof your magic begins.

 

Sexual Energy

A misstep of sexual energy  can occur when the Sacral Chakra is out of tune and misaligned. This can be over the top or none at all. We are created via the Divine for procreation, sensual and sexual energies to bring forth these creations.  However, we also not designed to forgo.  The American culture seems enamored with female breasts; the more the better in most movies.

Other cultures look to the female yoni/womb as the most sensually alluring.  This is the preemptiveness of the creative flow within. Allowing the sexual energy to flow also helps the expressive ways to come forward.  Suppression of sensual/sexual disallows the overall continuance of another.

 

Energy Express 

Energy can be clouded, convoluted and/or stuck.  It is about an open flow of giving and receiving. Ponder a light bulb, when the conduit is open the energy current flows and there is light. When it is shut off then there is no energy and there is no light- no energy.  Your energy being Self works in the same manner.  When you are in the flow, you are open and allowing to give and receive. When you are not, then your are stuck or blocked from that pattern of the Divine to creatively express yourSelf.

 

Self expression

Not everyone has the same interests, creative skills or Self Expression.  This is the beauty to use all of your senses: see, hear, smell, taste and touch.  Essentially, this is about Self Expression. What is in you that can come forth if you so choose to allow this?

Since, we all have differences what is created via self expression is a echo of a joyful soul. The most inward, endearing moments.  Not all joy has bells and whistles.  How one chooses to express themselves is part of the evolution of the soul.  Releasing and letting go of that which no longer serves you is part of the creation of giving and receiving.

Not all Self Expression is in the form of Art. This is anything that is brought into existence.

NURTURING Self Expression

Express Self Expression

Express YourSelf
photo credit @Hidreck Dragonshade

The most natural way to nurture yourSelf is through creation.

How often have you thought it must be a certain way or it does not count or why bother?

You are Uniquely, Quirky YOU and you deserve to Express yourSelf in a manner that makes your heart happy.  So, if you enjoy working on cars that brings forth peace to a motor to run smoothly, so be it.  If you enjoy writing from your heart, so be it.  If you enjoy any form of a hobby that brings something into existence and you have a happy heart as a result of this; this is the epitome of Creative Self Expression.

6 Ways of Creative Self Expression

  • Sing or Play an Instrument (even if your are singing along in your car; this is a way for your heart to bring forth your happiness and joy)
  • Write (Journal, write a blog, write a poem or book)
  • Use a Thesaurus (find different ways to say the same thing-Happy: Joy, Delighted, Content)
  • Draw or paint your feelings
  • Dance or move your body (through movement)
  • Role Play (act out, play a game, be someone else for a moment to show or practice expressing your feelings)

These are just a few.

First Creative Self Expression Activity; Make your own list of Creative Self Expression.

Natasha, I would like to learn more about Creative Expression or the Uniquely, Quirky YOU offers @ Magical Blessings.  All Ages are Welcome.

Oodles of Love & Magical Blessings,

Natasha

 

 

Natasha Botkin Magical Blessings Healing CenterNatasha Botkin, Master Teacher & Intuitive Behavioral Energy Healer, is a #1 international bestselling author and Shiny Gold Star Quest creator.  Natasha uses healing soul psychology energies when working with youth and adults by releasing patterns & blocks to help them empower themselves.  Connect with me http://magicalblessingshealingcenter.com