9 Ways to Show Your True Colors

If you have read the first blog of the year, then you know there’s a surge of confidence gracing my words, pages and aesthetic. However, if you are just seeing this blog; please reference my Word of the Year post.

I adore the song True Colors by Cindy Lauper.  There is so much that resonates.  “… don’t be afraid …to show them Your true colors. True colors are beautiful. Like a rainbow.”  

We all have darkness that nests within. The small ego voice that says, “Don’t show them who you are.”

Better yet, do not listen to the ego; rise up & show you as the beautiful rainbow of chakra colors and aura that you are.

Courage 

Stand by Commitment Courageous Magical Blessings ConfidenceCourage is showing others who you are.  This is not the mask that is placed upon you and/or who you may believe that you are; rather this is who you are when you strip away the facades and stand with the Divine part of you.

Not everyone will find you to be their cup of tea, and that is just fine. Those who resonate with you, will also vibe with you.

Above all please stop asking permission to be you.

9 ways to Sprinkle a Dash of Boldness

  • Know your boundaries. Self care is a mega form of boundaries
  • Self Care is essential. Make time to do things that love you up!
  • Mentally allow yourself to change; ebb and flow like the seasons. Life will not remain constant and let yourself grow by learning, experiencing and living.
  • Physically love you up with nourishing foods, work out and rest with sleep and/or  just lazy days.
  • Emotionally allow yourself to feel. Open the flow and allow you to feel your feelings on a deep level. Do not dismiss them; invite them in and explore why you have these feelings and gently release this as lessons that can help you be happy, successful and amazing.
  • Spiritually connect with your version of Spirit. Have a nice conversation
  • Meditate; this does not have to be strict. This could be a 5 min. tea break. Sit and let your mind wander.
  • Be mindful of what you say to yourself. Speak lovingly, gently and softly to you.
  • Look at what you are thinking about others. Is this a way for you to focus on them, rather than looking at what you need and want.

Rise up and be you! There is no one like you; you are destined to be you, so why no just do it.

Oodles of Love & Magical Blessings,

Natasha

Believe in You Natasha Botkin Magical BlessingsNatasha Botkin, Master Teacher & Intuitive Behavioral Energy Healer, is a #1 international bestselling Author and Artist .  She uses healing soul psychology energies when working with youth and adults by releasing patterns & blocks to help them empower themselves.  Connect with me Magical Blessings Healing Center

 

Serenity Inside Job Magical Blessings

How Serenity is an Inside Job Part 1

Serenity is the state of being calm, peaceful and untroubled.  The serenity prayer specifies: courage, wisdom and changes. There are many factors to understand and bring this forth.

Courage

Serenity Inside Job Change Chance Transition Transformation Magical Blessings Courage Wisdom This is the ability to do something that frightens you. Being able to accept when something is for you and when you should walk away.

Do you hear the failure signal sounding? I say HUSH. Sometimes you need to fail in order to succeed. So, something did not turn out just you expected (time to forgo those expectations). That does not mean that it is the end of the world, that your life is ending and please, oh please do not create an anxious woe of self-doubt.

You are better than that and deserve to be treated, including by you, well. Wellness is a way to establish deep inner peace and being able to let go that which you cannot change; the courage to let go of an expected outcome and flow into what Divine Spirit has concluded for you. Do not turn and glance over your shoulder with regret, rather take a moment and learn from this situation. Grow through your soul and be happy to succeed, even if it feels like failing.

Wisdom

Something did not go as expected. May be you spent time fretting about it and played this over and over in your head. Anxiety happens to the best of us, and it sure would be great if that negative voice called the ego: SHUT UP.

This is where the wisdom arrives. You can change and control only you; no one else. Therefore, it is imperative to let go of what others say and do. Use your anxiety and self-doubt as a teaching tool. Stop looking to this as negative. There are times when your intuition warned you about something and you did change your direction. Say, you get a sick feeling to not attend a get together and  at the last minute you turn down a different street only to see in your rear view mirror a major accident. What seemed like introverted anxiety was your intuition guiding you away from danger.

It is the the knowing; what is woe and doubt and what is a deeper understanding. Listen to your gut; it can help you.

Change

Change Transition Transformation Magical Blessings Serenity Inside JobBe the powerful change for you. You are the change. Yes, if you have anxiety and self-doubt this can seem out of control. Yet, if you alter the idea of this, you taking both courage and wisdom to make a change for you.

When you are ready and able to make small manageable adjustments is when you are better able to follow through with change. This is creates peace within you. You are calm. Which leaves you less troubled.

Putting This All Together 

In life there will be anxious woes of doubt. You are powerful and can make a courageous change for the wise. Then one day what seemed to tear you apart is your greatest tool and ally.

Be sure to read Parts 1, 2 & 3 for best results. 

Oodles of Love & Magical Blessings, 

Natasha 

Natasha Botkin Magical Blessings Healing Center Heart Loft Art Write Meditation PaintingNatasha Botkin, Master Teacher & Intuitive Behavioral Energy Healer, is a #1 international bestselling Author and Artist.  She uses healing soul psychology energies when working with youth and adults by releasing patterns & blocks to help them empower themselves.  Connect with me Magical Blessings Healing Center

 

True Feelings Angel

Why it is Okay to Share Your True Feelings

It is okay to share your true feelings. The real question is, “Do you feel safe to share your true feelings?” 

Sharing Your Feelings

Once upon a time I shared my true feelings with another.  This came back and haunted me for years.  One, I was scared to death that anyone else would mistreat me in that manner.  Two, most people were not aware of my truth, and were quick to add judgement.  Yep, judge another. This is does not make sense to judge the one who’s feelings had been dismantled and misaligned from her own being. No one shall judge another, especially when one walks in a page 999; there are 998 pages before then.  We all have moments that have shaped us.

Judge No One

It is not okay to judge another.  Heck, it is not okay to impose your judgement of another on another individual.  Yet, there are times when we have all done this exact thing.  I recall a volatile work environment where judgment and condemnation was the foundation within the walls of this location.  This brings forth a hostile and unhealthy situation for all- even those who do not wish to participate.

We are all doing the best that we can.  No one has the critical analysis to bestow their opinions on another.  The old adage of do not judge a book by its cover or walk a mile in another’s shoes are great way to procure lack of judgement.

Caught Yourself Doing the Judging

Uh oh!  You’ve just caught yourself judging another.  Do not fret or worry. We all make mistakes. Gossiping is a mega human condition of the ego.  It is the internal celebration of competition. We do not need this; yet somehow if you accidentally slip; apologize to yourself, and create a projection of positive light energy of forgiveness to yourself and the whole situation.

Being Brave Enough to Change

I recently found myself in a group of others; I knew no one.  When someone mentioned something that I do not believe in; it was okay, it was accepted as my feelings and that was an amazing feeling. In that moment I felt as if I had found the Holy Grail and sippith from my Chalice of Divine Spiritual Waters. I felt safe to express me.

What about yourself? Once upon a time, I was super harsh on myself.  Super patient for others and none for me.  The worst feeling in the world was feeling unsafe and distrust for myself.  Yep, I did not trust me.  I did nothing wrong; I was scared to death that what happened in the past was forever and always.  Now, that does not mean that everyone is out to get me; nor does this mean that I am untrustable for being lead to believe that one cared about me, and used this against me. It means that I shall overcome what was done.  I am undoing the painful lessons and allowing myself the ability to trust again. In other words to feel safe.

Forgiveness of Self & Others

The ancient Hawaiian Mantra Ho’oponopono is a great tool to help with forgiveness.  Use your name, another’s name and/or situation. There is no wrong way to say this; so, if you wish to change the step- no worries.

Step 1: Surrender-– I’M SORRY

Step 2: Ask Forgiveness – PLEASE FORGIVE ME

Step 3: Gratitude – THANK YOU

Step 4: Love – I LOVE YOU

 

Feeling Emotionally Safe

  • Identify and challenge your toxic thoughts towards yourself.
  • Be open and speak up for yourself
  • Do not agree to everything.  Do not say yes when you really mean no.
  • Recognize that you may need assistance from another and that is okay.
  • Be Brave and ask for help.
  • Be consistent
  • Demonstrate commitment to you.

Yes, Natasha I would love to learn how to Love Myself & Others Without Criticism and Judgement

or

Stop by the Magical Blessings Bookstore there are many books to choose from that may be beneficial for you.

or Magical Blessings Virtual Academy for both Youth & Adults to complete a course.

Oodles of Love & Magical Blessings, 

Natasha

 

Natasha Botkin, Master Teacher & Intuitive Behavioral Energy Healer, is a #1 international bestselling author and Shiny Gold Star Quest creator.  As a Dark Heart Teacher, she uses healing soul psychology energies when working with youth and adults by releasing patterns & blocks to help them empower themselves.  Connect with me http://magicalblessingshealingcenter.com