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Serenity is an Inside Job Part 3

Serenity is a way for you to make courageous and wise decisions that will change your life. This was my word for 2017. I have not ever chosen a word to be my word of the year. So, I was not sure how this would show up in my life.

Wise Courage 

Serenity Inside Job Change Chance Transition Transformation Magical Blessings Courage WisdomSo many changes showed up for me. There have been days where my head spins and I wonder where I get off the out of control roller coaster, and then suddenly things calm down. The best attribute for my personal growth was the disallowance of being a peace keeper. Early on in my life, I learned to be given love was through peaceful negations with family members. In truth, this is not the greatest affect for anyone. Therefore, being courageous to walk away from things that did not serve me was one of the bravest and wisest experiences for serenity.

You, too, be courageous to walk way from anything that no longer severs you. If this sounds wonky, think of this as a mission and if the mission went away or feels like it is over; move on. You will be glad that you did.

Clarifying Self-Confidence 

Intuitive and serenity go hand and hand for you. I found a much deeper intuitive connection that lead me to more  self- confidence. We are all here to grow and learn. Even the bravest and most fearless have things that can stop them in their tracks. You need to keep moving, learning and growing. Let go of complacency. Move onward and discover that through clarity your self-confidence arises in a whole new way.

This may require change. It may be an big adjustment. Step back and be gentle with yourself during a time of transition. There is no race. You will not win nor lose; it is all about the wonderful discoveries along the way. Let go of expectations and let yourself grow, learn and courageously shift.

Bringing it to my Soul 

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Serenity brought me much closer to my soul. Each step and shift adjust my sails and brought me to other destinations unknown. A destination does not have to be a location. This can also be a moment in time. A way for your to traverse the new by letting go of the old.

Let it Go, Let it Flow meditations and resurgence of painting @ my Heart Loft brought so much serene moments  for me. Yes, this brought forth much change; in fact I was in transition all of 2017. Yet, this also brought for one of my greatest dreams to build my dream home. 2018 will bring forth this dream and it all began with calm, courageous change.

I can do it! 

You can do it! 

Let’s do this together! 

Be sure to read Part 1-3 for best results. 

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Stop by the Heart Loft and stay a bit; you won’t regret it. 

Oodles of Love & Magical Blessings, 

Natasha 

 

 

 

 

Natasha Botkin Magical Blessings Healing CenterNatasha Botkin, Master Teacher & Intuitive Behavioral Energy Healer, is a #1 international bestselling Author and Artist.  She uses healing soul psychology energies when working with youth and adults by releasing patterns & blocks to help them empower themselves.  Connect with me Magical Blessings Healing Center

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How Serenity is an Inside Job Part 2

Serenity comes from a deep inner connection of peace, courage and wisdom. You are able to make the changes that you need. What if you are unable to make a decision or change, then what?

Change 

Serenity Inside Job Change Chance Transition Transformation Magical Blessings Courage WisdomChange is something that we discovery early on. How this is presented to your developing self is also how you will handle change.

Ultimately, change is the ability to make something different. This could be a simple as making a dot over the letter i or a heart. Or this could be as complex as a seed that continues to shift into different stages of growth to become that blooming flower.

Either way, change is different. Some people love differences and some fall into a complacent category. They find something that they like a certain way and continue this over and over. A toddler that likes only one meal and insists this to be the only food they will enjoy. Some parents will allow this and others will not.

How this change was presented to you is why you have anxiety.

Stop & reflect back to your childhood. Did you like change?

How was this presented to you with gentle kindness and nudges or full on I am the adult and you will do as I say assault?

If you were given the latter of the two suggestions is why you may dislike change. Yet, staying complacent is not for your greatest benefit.

Rolling with the Punches

Sure we have all heard of roll with the punches or if it ain’t broken don’t fix it. Let’s look at this in a different manner. Life will have its challenges; its ups & downs. Serenity provides the courage to be wise, and how to offer this wisdom so that others will respect you. If they choose not to respect you; then that is on them; you’ve done nothing wrong. You will  show your power in another way; you decided to take the bull by the horns and just go for it.

Don’t let others get you down. You are amazing. So, someone didn’t like a pitch. Okay, there are others who may. Someone disliked your style of dressing; so be it, and why would you care what they think. Seriously, are they in charge of you. Nope! Therefore, do not be afraid to be the voice of reason or change.

In fact, I have found that one of my gifts in life is to be the pot stirrer.  I do not think inside the box, and bring a fresh new perspective. If I stood back, nothing would change; in many situations I was the influencer, the innovator. Imagine if I did not find my voice to speak up and anxiously sat there. Nothing would have changed; and just like that I swoop in, create Divine Spirit’s changes and fly away to other assignments. On more than one occasion, I have been called a bitch or an angel depending on who responded.  Many of the changes that I brought were life altering and even life saving.

Go ahead and be the serene change!

Self-Confidence 

Believe in You Natasha Botkin Magical Blessings Now this brings up a touchy subject, but depending on how change was presented to you also affected your self-confidence. If you feel like a spawning salmon always swimming upstream to spawn, mate and die; yeah, this can have a negative impact. This breaks ya down; big time.

If you were given a gentle nudge and allowed to express your ideas and concerns you were also taught how to offer ideas and suggestions with confidence. This positively builds you up; big time.

Part of your personal growth is to discover what works and does not work for you. This should not hinder your progression. You deserve to have confidence and bring forth serenity.

Do it! Be the courageous wise one! 

Be sure to read Parts 1-3 for best results. 

Oodles of Love & Magical Blessings, 

Natasha 

Natasha Botkin Magical Blessings Healing CenterNatasha Botkin, Master Teacher & Intuitive Behavioral Energy Healer, is a #1 international bestselling Author and Artist.  She uses healing soul psychology energies when working with youth and adults by releasing patterns & blocks to help them empower themselves.  Connect with me Magical Blessings Healing Center

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9 Ways That Point You to Self Gratitude

We hear so much about how you should practice self-care and self-love. Rarely, do you hear about self-gratitude?  Sure it is great to be grateful and appreciate all the life has to offer you. Do you gratefully accept yourself and all that you have to offer?

You are an amazing person!

Take a moment and reflect back on your life. For a moment ponder a moment and take you out of the equation.  Would this have the same result? No, it would not. You offer something that no one else has, and no one else will ever have.

You are truly unique and amazing!

STOP COMPARING

Too many times in life, you may have looked over the fence to view what seems like greener grass on the other side. It’s like being in competition; yet, there is no one to really compete with.  Sure, if you are at a sporting event there is one team and you take sides. Should you subdivide you and take the side either for or against you?

compete competition magical blessings winner loserNo, you shall not.  Nurturing you is you? You deserve the absolute best because you are the best!

Inhale and exhale. Repeat this three times. Each time you inhaled and exhaled was different. Each moment is different. You nourish yourself in many forms. Let’s celebrate the gratitude that you are and that you deserve.

This celebration is a celebration of you and you alone. It is too easy to slide into people pleaser mode, so take this one for you and only you.

Take a bit of time to be grateful for you and all that you do!

9 WAYS OF SELF GRATITUDE

  • Stop chastising yourself for not being further along your growth process. Appreciate how far you’ve come.
  • Celebrate any goal. It can be small or massive.
  • Accept compliments. Don’t deflect them away from you. Be grateful that someone sees how amazing you are!
  • Grateful heart Gratitude Self Love Self Care Magical BlessingsTry something new. A new recipe or  restaurant. Take a bite, swallow and enjoy.
  • Write yourself a love note. Get mushy, love you up.
  • Go on a date with you. If you wanna date another or have date nights get comfortable dating yourself.
  • Take time to do what makes you happy. If ya love music, sing;  ya love nature, go for a stroll/walk;  ya love to paint, dip that paint brush in the paint. Let go & enjoy!
  • Express yourself. Talk to yourself through it if you are uncertain about a situation; then go for it . Express yourself in a way that makes sense to you. If you desire lavender locks, go for it. If you wish to buy a piece of clothing that helps you express yourself, do it.
  • Ask yourself, “What do I really want?” Instead of “What should I want.”

Creating Your Life

You are the designer of your life. No one else can create this for you. Roll up your sleeves. Get messy and darn it enjoy you!

Go for it! 

Be grateful for you!

I am routing for you!

You’ve got this! 

 

Oodles of Love & Magical Blessings, 

Natasha 

 

Natasha Botkin Magical Blessings Healing CenterNatasha Botkin, Master Teacher & Intuitive Behavioral Energy Healer, is a #1 international bestselling Author, Artist.  She uses healing soul psychology energies when working with youth and adults by releasing patterns & blocks to help them empower themselves.  Connect with me Magical Blessings Healing Center