How to be Authentic

Have you heard the whispers in the air, the lull of the moon, the dance of the waves. Your authentic self calls to you, please come to me, let me be me.

One thing is for sure, your soul will not allow you to hide, procrastinate nor ignore. The energy vibes are calling, whispering, saying your truth and the more that you try to ignore or hide, the stronger the vibes may become.

It’s as if you soul is standing up and saying enough; enough with your shenanghans.  I am here in the now; now follow me.

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The old 3D adage of fake it until you make it, no longer rings true. It is an old pattern and belief established in the third dimension; the awakened consciousness no longer tolerates this type of shenanghans.

In fact this may create more dissidence than helpfulness. Your inner peace will sound like a siren screaming it’s head off- “You fraud, that’s false.” Please note that your authentic voice is more powerful than a meek or false voice. The 7D toll of the bell, rings of love, of truth, of light. It requires for you to let go of your mask(s), and stand in your true, authentic power.

The haters are gonna hate

There will be those who disagree. Okay, why do they have more power over you, than you do of yourself? Use your authentic voice, show the world who you really are, and the world will answer your call, and step up to form a clearer path as to how you will go about your soul’s blueprint and why you are here.

Now, this is not to say, that you cannot insist on “your way” aka the idea of “free will.” I am here to gently emphasize that this is a 3 year in numerology, where your inner-most heartfelt desires are set to take form.   Get ready to open your wings & FLY or flop.

Ultimately the choice is up to you. No one is in your way, but you.

Authentic Ways For You to Show up

Here are a few ways to show up in an authentic manner, which can calm the storm of the lesson if you allow. 

Ways to be authentic:

  1. Is this a feeling, emotion or thought? 
  2. Ask yourself what am I feeling? Sad, mad, happy, anxious, calm and more. Spend time with the feeling; sit with it; do not move on it. Take 3 deep breaths. Now how do you feel?
  3. Allow yourself to feel this emotion.  Do not ignore it, this will tighten its grip- Breathe in and out as the emotion happens. Rest for a moment, reflect on what this is teaching you. Inhale and then exhale by releasing the emotion and re-setting yourself. Give yourself space to flow through the emotion.
  4. Is the thought useful, benefical or is it an old story that wants attention? Inhale the thought, do nothing else and then exhale letting it go. Don’t hold onto it. Breath it out and ask the angels/spirit to take it from here.
  5. Where did the feeling, emotion or thought originate from? Pay careful attention to the signs that your emotional body is sending to your physical body (i.e.  is your chest tight- then breath into your heart center and allow the emotion to flow in and out of you-almost like an ocean wave). Disease holds onto the body and the origination is a feeling, emotion or thought: DIS-EASE.
  6. Is this actually a belief?  What is the illusion that you are trying to convince yourself as your truth?
  7. Reiki and Distance Healing is a great way to help you to rest, reflect and re-set.

The World Needs You to Dance With Yourself

This is from a metaphoric stance; and, yet it is key to be you. There is no one like you. You are perfect just as you are, and the world needs you to be you. In the words of Dr. Suess, “Today you are you, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is youer than you.”

May you always be blessed by being you!

Oodles of Love,


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Natasha Botkin MSc. Ed. Rm., Reiki Master, Meditation Teacher & Intuitive Behavioral Energy Healer, is a #1 international bestselling Author and Artist. She uses healing whimsical, magical, soul psychology energies when working with youth and adults by releasing patterns, blocks, and trauma to help them empower themselves. Connect with me Magical Wellness

Dark Angels Message in the Sky

There is No Shame or Guilt in Darkness

There is no shame or guilt in darkness.  We all have moments where the dark can creep in.  Who is to say that one is better or darker than another.

Doing the Best That We Can

Shame and guilt are a way of saying I am bad, but you are not. We are all doing the best that we can.  Divine Spirit helps guide us to our highest potential.  It is never ending and does not fade.  This is the parent that stays up in the darkest of moments to help shine that light on you when you return home.

Shining Divine Light 

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So, darkness has found its way to you.  Does that this means it is the end,  This is quite the opposite; darkness is a cry in the dark for a light passage home.  Lighted paths do not mean death.  Suicide is at an all time high.

One does not need to render that this is the end.  The ego would prefer for death; it is a prideful thing.  Oh no you didn’t!  This is not an insolent movement; this is the acceptance that there is help.  Someone is always listening, whether it is suicide, anxiety, worry,  The human conceptional reasoning of dark is not the end all.  There is hope, there is movement.

Darkest of Souls

Along my journey I have met and worked with some of the darkest souls that one can possibly imagine.  Some may surprise you as they do not fit the ideal image of “dark.” This is not a horror movie; this is real life.  This a precious individual(s)who may be lost and unsure how to to find solace in their being.

There is no room for criticism nor judgement.  Everyone is doing the best that they can do at that moment.  This is what matters the most.

My Dark Admission Time

I was about to abandon and give up the Magical Blessings Healing Center when a dear soul in need of Divine Light reached out to me.  It was the message that I needed to keep going.  This individual’s words resonate deep within me and stirred a sleeping giant within me awake!

“I had every intention of ending my life today, and your poem spoke to me in such a powerful way, that I have decided to stay and fulfill my dreams.” 

I was gob smack in awe of this! My tears breaking the damn. I heard my Soul Shine its Inner Divine Radiance for all to see. Moments later my BeLoved shared a notion that would help support me.  Just when I was about to give up, Divine Spirit spoke strongly, “Please Natasha, One More Time; Do Not Give Up Just Before the Miracle!” 

A New Way of Being

We are energy light beings.  We have dark moments and light moments.  It is okay to go slow, tread lightly and be gentle as you learn in a new manner.  Please be gentle with yourself and allow yourself to dance in the light of the Divine for you my Dear Heart are the most beautiful Being!!

Natasha, I would like to re-learn how to hear my Heart & Soul- Please help me Shine my Inner Radiance or clear my energy.


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Oodles of Love & Magical Blessings, 


Natasha Botkin, Master Teacher & Intuitive Behavioral Energy Healer, is a #1 international bestselling author and Shiny Gold Star Quest creator.  As a Dark Heart Teacher, she uses healing soul psychology energies when working with youth and adults by releasing patterns & blocks to help them empower themselves.  Connect with me